Sunday, February 15, 2009

Be Happy – Make Yourself Lucky.

It is really a matter of chance that some people have all the luck while others never get the breaks they deserve. All the people have almost no insight into the causes of their luck, but their thoughts and behaviour are responsible for much of their good and bad fortune. Lucky people consistently encounter chance opportunities, whereas unlucky people do not.

Why some people are lucky but some other are unlucky depends upon their own approach to the work assigned to them or targeted by them. If you give same newspaper to lucky and unlucky persons, you will find that that the person, supposed to be lucky, will go through the newspaper thoroughly and find out the viable whereas the other one may not do it and would keep himself busy to find out what else beyond the edges of that piece of newspaper. Unlucky person is generally tenser than lucky people, and this anxiety disrupts the ability to notice the unexpected. As a result, they miss opportunities because they are too focused on looking for something else. They go to parties’ intent on finding their perfect partner and so miss opportunities to make good friends. They look through newspapers determined to find certain types of job advertisements and miss other types of jobs.

Lucky people more relaxed and open, and therefore see what is there rather than just what they are looking for. Lucky people generate good fortune via four principles. They are skilled at creating and noticing chance opportunities, make lucky decisions by listening to their intuition, and create self-fulfilling prophesies via positive expectations, and adopt a resilient attitude that transforms bad luck into good. The elusive ‘luck factor’ can be found out if we may follow the following rules:

1) Listen to your gut instincts – they are normally right.

2) Be open to new experiences and breaking your normal routine.

3) Spend a few moments each day remembering things that went well.

4) Visualize yourself beings lucky before an important meeting or telephone call.

Have some job aimed at, examine its viability and work for it sincerely – you will be lucky and be

Happy.

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