Friday, November 6, 2009

Be happy – Accomplish Your Dreams (Part 65)

To Accomplish Your Dreams, you need to possess some human qualities like acceptance to consider circumstances, especially those that can not be changed, as satisfactory, bravery- A quality of spirit that enables you to face danger of pain without showing fear, caution to Avoid rashness with attention to safety, curiosity to find out and know things, defiance to wrong practices boldly, determination of purpose, devotion As great love or loyalty, enthusiastic zeal, discretion in speaking/discussing, flexibility to change according to the circumstances, your focus or your Concentrated awareness and effort, forgiveness or giving up your anger or bitterness towards a person for some offence against you, generosity to give freely, free from meanness or prejudice, gentleness, gratitude, honesty by being Truthful; sincere; not lying or cheating, humbleness, The ability to perceive, enjoy, or express what is amusing, comical, incongruous, or absurd, impartiality, industriousness with diligence and hardworking, innocence, Fair, impartial, justice giving a deserved response, Friendly, helpful, well meaning kindness, love - A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness, loyalty Steadfast in allegiance to your homeland, government, or sovereign/ Faithful to a person, ideal, custom, cause, or duty, your majesty as Great and impressive dignity, moderation to avoid extremes in your actions or opinions with others, your strong obedience/willingness to obey, to be controlled when necessary, to carry out orders, openness and being Ready and willing to talk candidly, patience to endure delay, trouble, pain or hardship, peace for Freedom from mental agitation; serenity, prudence in conduct. Shrewd or thrifty in planning ahead, your reliability in the eyes of others, responsibility having control over and accountability for appropriate events, sensitivity or your Heightened awareness, simplicity Free from pretense or deceit in manner or actions. Straightforward; not complex or complicated. Unpretentious, sincerity in the relationship, sobriety- Serious, solemn and calm, Free from intoxication, spontaneity, steadfastness Firm, resolute; determinedly unwavering, strength Capable of exerting great force, temperance, toughness Strong and durable; not easily damaged, tranquility Serenely quite and peaceful; undisturbed, trust Having confidence in others; lacking suspicion and trustworthiness to be trusted or depended on etc.

Benjamin Franklin, one of the world's greatest scholars, politicians and inventors and credited as being foundational to the roots of American values and character, a marriage of the practical and democratic Puritan values of thrift, hard work, education, community spirit, self-governing institutions, and opposition to authoritarianism both political and religious, with the scientific and tolerant values of the Enlightenment, had once made a list of 13 virtues that he valued but did not possess. What Ben did was work on only one virtue at a time, noting when he messed up, and when he succeeded in using the virtue. He made turning himself into a person who possessed that virtue his mission and did not worry about any of the other 12 until he had mastered the first one.

Ultimately, with his determined efforts, he conquered them all. And he will forever be remembered as one of the greatest men who ever lived. It is very simple to accomplish his achievements! And sorry... Because so many people go to their graves never conquering even one of their major hurdles in life, settling for mediocrity.

Can you kindly enumerate why was Ben Franklin's growth plan so complicated that you or... well, practically anyone else couldn't use it? Couldn't even someone with no common sense or potential for any more than pushing a broom eight hours a day go after just one goal at a time with passion?

All wisdom and all virtues already exist within you in perfect form. Vices and imbalances such as cowardice, weakness and clumsiness are caused by not accepting the various aspects of yourself. Virtues in your everyday life can be developed by simply accepting the various aspects of yourself and allowing them back into your life. You can do it by taking following steps:

1. Be calm and relaxed in every situation.

2. Eliminate habits and self limiting beliefs by dealing with their root cause.

3. Improve intelligence.

4. Increase your capability in any field of endeavor.

5. Increase physical and mental vitality.

6. Understand yourself and those around you.

7. Improve your character. Etc.

Be Happy – Accomplish Your Dreams.

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